Cyclops (Polyphemus) – The Single Giant Problem

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sigle problem

Challenge: One big issue—colic, reflux, latch pain—overshadows all progress.
Ulysses Move: Break it into micro-goals and stack small wins.


Introduction

Odysseus meets the Cyclops, a giant with one eye and zero boundaries. He traps the crew in a cave and does what unpredictable giants do—chaos.

Newborn life can feel the same: one big, unpredictable force (cluster feeding, reflux, gas, overstimulation) suddenly dominates everything.

The Core Lesson



You cannot negotiate with chaos—you create structure.

Parenthood Parallel
  • Routine is your “door.” Gentle rhythms = safe exits from overwhelm.

  • Predictability calms everyone. Babies don’t need strict schedules; they need patterns.

  • Name the giant. “Today is a growth spurt,” not “Everything is falling apart.”

Ulisses Method Insight

When the day feels giant-sized, zoom out. Protect the environment, adjust wake windows, and reduce stimulation. Empowerment comes from clarity, not control.


Boundaries tame the giant.

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