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About the service
What is The Minimalist Baby?
The Minimalist Baby is in-home newborn care led by a NICU-trained registered nurse, based in San Francisco and caring for families nationwide and worldwide. Most families arrive at parenthood overwhelmed, not unprepared, just buried under too many opinions, gadgets, and conflicting answers. I cut through that. I come into your home, get to know your baby, and help your family find a rhythm that actually works. No templates, no one-size-fits-all programs. What sets this apart from a night nurse or doula is the depth of clinical knowledge behind every decision. You won't always see it, but it's always there.
What does a newborn care specialist do?
A newborn care specialist is an expert in newborn sleep, feeding, and care during the first weeks and months of life. In practice, that means in-home overnight care, sleep shaping, feeding guidance, and a calm, clinically-informed presence so your family can rest and find its footing. The difference here is the registered-nurse background, with NICU and PICU experience informing every small decision.
How is a newborn care specialist different from a night nurse, night nanny, or postpartum doula?
A night nanny keeps watch overnight and follows your instructions. A newborn care specialist adds training in newborn sleep and feeding routines. A postpartum doula focuses on the parents’ recovery and emotional support. A registered nurse brings clinical training and a state license. I combine all four: overnight care, sleep shaping, feeding and lactation support, care for your own recovery, and 15+ years of NICU and PICU nursing behind every decision. The relationship also often begins before birth, with a prenatal consultation and a plan, so the care is built around your family rather than a generic script.
Who do you work with?
Every kind of family. Same-sex parents, single parents by choice, IVF and surrogacy journeys, multiples, first-time parents, fifth-time parents, all welcome. The common thread is wanting evidence-based, judgment-free care during one of the most tender chapters of life.
The approach & what's included
What newborn care services do you offer?
Three main forms of support, shaped around where you are: overnight newborn care so you can sleep, daytime and postpartum support while you find your footing, and the Ulisses Method, my own sleep framework built around your baby's cues rather than a fixed schedule. Some families come for sleep shaping, others for feeding help, others simply want someone calm in the room who knows what they're looking at. Not sure which fits? That's exactly what a first conversation is for.
What is the Ulisses Method?
The Ulisses Method maps the 12 trials of the Odyssey onto the real challenges of the newborn season, from the first regression to the 2 a.m. temptation to change everything. Each trial names a struggle almost every modern parent meets and pairs it with a clear, evidence-based response drawn from my 15+ years of NICU and pediatric nursing. It is gentle and built around your baby's cues. I don't believe in cry-it-out. Most babies in my care settle into self-soothing sleep by ten to twelve weeks. You can explore all 12 trials on the Ulisses Method page.
Do you offer feeding and lactation support?
Yes. I support whatever feeding path fits your family, whether breastfeeding, bottle, or a combination, with hands-on, judgment-free guidance grounded in clinical experience. Part of the work is establishing feeding routines that help your baby thrive and give your household a predictable rhythm.
Can you help with twins or multiples?
Yes. Multiples are welcome, and the structure and rhythm of experienced overnight care is often exactly what families with twins need most in the early weeks. I coordinate feeds, sleep, and routines so two babies don't mean twice the overwhelm.
What does a typical first night look like?
We sit together first. You tell me about your baby, and I listen. Then you sleep, and I take over. By morning I have a full picture of the night (every feed, every stretch, every small signal worth noting), and I'm still there when you wake, ready to walk you through it and adjust the plan for the day. Every night informs the next. That's how the rhythm builds.
What is it like to have you in our home?
It feels like exhaling. From the moment I arrive, someone who has truly seen it all is holding the watch with you. With over fifteen years in neonatal and pediatric intensive care, there's very little I haven't already soothed or solved: prematurity, feeding difficulties, weight-gain concerns, gas, colic, and the long nights that wear new parents down. But it's about more than the baby. I care for the whole family, walking mothers through postpartum recovery and helping fathers find their confidence. I don't believe in cry-it-out. Using a warm, attachment-informed approach, babies in my care typically settle into self-soothing sleep by ten to twelve weeks. You don't have to piece together a night nurse, a lactation consultant, and a sleep coach separately. You get all of it in one calm pair of hands.
Credentials & trust
What are your credentials as a newborn care specialist?
Registered nurse with NICU, PICU, and pediatric trauma experience. References from pediatricians, a child psychiatrist, and families who’ll tell you things a resume never could. But the credential that matters most is what happens in the room. Most families know within the first hour.
Do newborn care specialists sleep during overnight shifts?
No. Overnight care is active care. I handle feeds, diaper changes, and soothing through the night, while gently implementing sleep shaping that helps your baby learn to self-soothe and establishing feeding routines that support healthy growth. By morning you have a full picture of how your baby slept and a plan for the day ahead.
What is the fourth trimester?
The first three months after birth, as your baby adjusts to the world and your family adjusts to your baby. It's the window where calm, knowledgeable support makes the biggest difference, and exactly where I focus.
Logistics & booking
How much does a newborn care specialist cost?
In the Bay Area, overnight newborn care typically runs 35 to 60 dollars per hour for non-medical caregivers, and more for nurse-level care. My rates reflect 15+ years of NICU and PICU nursing and are tailored to your schedule and needs. After a free 15-minute consultation, I send a clear, itemized proposal. No surprises, ever.
Where are you based, and do you travel?
I am based in San Francisco and travel extensively for families nationwide and worldwide. Wherever you are, care happens in your home, and the first conversation is a call either way.
Do you require a contract?
Yes. A simple agreement so we both start with clear expectations. It covers schedule, confidentiality, and investment: nothing you wouldn't expect, and nothing we can't talk through together before we begin.
How far in advance should I book?
The earlier the better, especially for spring and summer due dates, since many families reach out in the second trimester. That said, I do my best to accommodate urgent and last-minute requests when my schedule allows.
How do we get started?
Book a free 15-minute consultation. We will talk through your needs, and I will design a care plan tailored to your baby and your family.
What happens if you are unavailable?
Reliability is central to my care. We plan coverage together in advance and keep clear communication, so your family is always supported and there are no surprises.